feat(multiplayer): persist live reconnect abandonments

server/store/initial_connect_sql_test.go

@@ -27,6 +27,14 @@ func TestInitialConnectSQLPreservesAtomicNoShowReconciliation(t *testing.T) {
 			}
 		}
 	}
+	for _, fragment := range []string{"INITIAL_CONNECT_NO_SHOW", "MATCH_ABANDONED"} {
+		if !contains(initialConnectHistorySQL, fragment) {
+			t.Fatalf("initial-connect abandon history missing %q", fragment)
+		}
+		if !contains(QueueCooldownSelectSQL, fragment) {
+			t.Fatalf("queue cooldown fence missing %q", fragment)
+		}
+	}
 }
 
 func TestInitialConnectPlanValidationRejectsIncompleteOrForgedPlans(t *testing.T) {