feat(multiplayer): task 2.8 net_sim.gd, close out Phase 2

New NetSim autoload: seeded, CLI-driven (--net-sim-latency/-jitter/-loss/-dup)
latency/jitter/loss/duplicate decorator, a true no-op passthrough unless a
flag is set. Wraps MatchSim.send_input/send_snapshot per the design doc's
scope, plus NetworkManager's ping/pong so the already-tested RTT/clock
measurement becomes the acceptance signal for "raises observed RTT" without
waiting on Phase 3's per-peer snapshot echo.

Two real bugs found while building and verifying this against Phase 2's own
milestone gate (a real match under --net-sim-latency 80 --net-sim-jitter
20, not just LAN): a timestamp captured inside a delayed RPC closure
silently ate that side's own added delay out of the round-trip
measurement instead of adding to it; and a delayed send whose target
disconnected (or whose own process had already shut down) during the hold
threw RPC errors, since the existing get_peers() filtering only checked
validity at schedule time. Fixed by capturing timestamps before handing
off to NetSim, and by having NetSim re-validate the target at fire time.

Phase 2's milestone gate now passes for real: a full 1v1 under simulated
80ms latency / 20ms jitter still shows clean server-authoritative
movement and zero RPC errors. Full Phase 1 + Phase 2 regression suite
re-verified clean with NetSim present but inactive.

Game/tests/net_sim_smoke.tscn

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+[gd_scene load_steps=2 format=3]
+
+[ext_resource type="Script" path="res://tests/net_sim_smoke.gd" id="1_nss"]
+
+[node name="NetSimSmoke" type="Node"]
+script = ExtResource("1_nss")